You have spent some time with this person, either you have a drink or go for dinner or you go to a ba

You have spent some time with this person, either you have a drink or go for dinner or you go to a ball game. It doesn’t matter very much but at the end of that time you observe whether you are more energised or less energised. Whether you are tired or whether you are exhilarated. If you are more tired then you have been poisoned.
Milton Glaser - Ten Things I Have Learned